Moving Into Your Significant Other’s And His Ex’s House

How Fun It Is Going To Be To Move Into The Ex’s House, Said No One Ever! We see it all the time, the stepmom

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Coronavirus COVID-19 and Stepfamilies

  Coronavirus COVID-19 The Coronavirus has great potential to destroy blended families if we let it. Blended families are hard without any outward instability in

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Post Traumatic Stepmom Disorder (PTSMD)

  The Beginning When we created Nacho Kids® and our website in 2013, I wrote blogs, had a “secret” invitation-only Facebook group to help others

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I Don’t Love My Stepkids!

If You Express You Don’t Love Your Stepkids – Watch Out, You’ll Get Attacked! In most Facebook groups and in “real life”, stepparents (mainly stepmoms)

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Can You Nacho One Stepkid And Not The Others?

Answer We are often asked if you can Nacho one stepkid and not the other(s). The answer: Yes, you can!! Why Not All Some stepparents

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The Stepmom Struggle is Real

The “Secret” Struggles This topic is even more taboo than the Nacho Kids method, believe it or not. People tend to avoid discussing their struggles

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The “Blendered” Family

I don’t really like the term “Blended Family”. Nor do I really care for the term “stepmom” either, but that’s a different blog post. What

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Stepfamily News Flash: You’re Not And Won’t Be A Nuclear Family

Come To Reality You’re not a nuclear family. There are bio parents involved. You can’t expect your family to behave like a nuclear family, because

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Last Names and Stepfamilies

How Many Last Names Are There In Your Blend? Is your last name the same as your significant others? Is your last name the same

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Picture taking in a Stepfamily or Blended Family

Pictures… When you’re in a blended family, or stepfamily, everything seems complicated. And pictures are one of those times it can become more stressful than

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As A Stepmom, You Almost Have To Have Multiple Personalities

The Instinct to Mother For many stepmoms, the mothering role comes naturally. We tend to want to take care of the stepkids. As stepmoms, we

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What is this “Nacho” and “Nachoing” for stepparents of which you speak?

Definition of “Nachoing”: People often ask, what is Nachoing? The Facebook response is usually “Nacho Kids, Nacho Problem.” Well, not quite. The stepkids can definitely

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