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URGENT ANNOUNCEMENT! Nacho Kids Academy is here!!

URGENT ANNOUNCEMENT! Nacho Kids Academy is here!!

If you are ready to get serious about changing your blended family mess into success, and to save your sanity and marriage, now is the time to join! In the Academy, we teach you how to properly nacho, we walk alongside your journey with you and we teach you crucial...

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Seeing Things A Little Differently

Seeing Things A Little Differently

  Recently I read something very interesting that shed some light on what some Nacho Moms (and Biological Moms) struggle with…  wondering why your husband doesn’t see things the way you do when it comes to parenting. The article listed several “types” of Fathers:...

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Stepmom Responsibilities

Stepmom Responsibilities

  Stepmom responsibilities for the stepkids: Make sure they don't die on your watch. Disclaimer: Do not allow them to be on your watch, if you fear you will die on your watch.  

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5 Things I Learned In The Courts

5 Things I Learned In The Courts

The Family Court system is not somewhere you strive to go. Unfortunately a lot of people end up there because of divorce or child custody hearings. Throughout my many years in and out of the court system, I have learned five very important things. It's an extremely...

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Why Do You Nacho?

Why Do You Nacho?

You Nacho to lessen the stress and anxiety, not just in you but those around you. If you are stressed and anxious, others around you will feel that. It's not a pleasant environment. You Nacho to save your sanity. You do this by realizing the things you have absolutely...

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Is NachoKids Disrespectful?

Is NachoKids Disrespectful?

NachoKids is not disrespectful to anyone. It's not ignoring the stepkids or neglecting them. It's not punishing their bio parents. Is it disrespectful to avoid situations that can cause arguments? Is it disrespectful to shut the door to the messy bedroom of stepkid so...

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Do I Nacho everything?

Do I Nacho everything?

When you are disengaging, you don't have to Nacho everything. Just Nacho the things that cause you stress. If you don't mind cooking dinner for the family, then continue to do so. However, if the dishes left over from cooking and eating anger you, then you may want to...

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Three main levels of Nachoing with NachoKids

Three main levels of Nachoing with NachoKids

Level 1 – Basic Nacho: Certain task(s)/duties/responsibilities are Nacho’d.  Not often communicated to the bio parent as being placed into practice.  It’s a bit more subtle. This is also the beginner’s level or the method that just simply works for you and your...

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The Honest Truth

The Honest Truth

I don’t treat them the same… I don’t treat my NachoKids the same as I do my son. I love them and they know it but they also know that my son is treated differently. Is it right? Is it wrong? It just is. As a NachoMom, I see what the NachoKids do wrong quicker than I...

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Nacho Grandparents – the extended Nacho Family

Nacho Grandparents – the extended Nacho Family

  The many levels of step families – Nacho Grandparents Of course when you get married to someone with kids, most the time their mother and father or mother and step father or step mother and father (you get the picture) are involved in some fashion. This...

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NachoKids method is almost better than…

NachoKids method is almost better than…

Nacho Kids method – almost better than Krispy Kreme Doughnuts!   Some do as I did when I first heard "they are not your kids".  They think it's a bad thing.  It's not a bad thing, it is actually almost better than Krispy Kreme HOT & NOW doughnuts, but not...

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The concept behind NachoKids theory

The concept behind NachoKids theory

Many people have a very huge misconception of The NachoKids method. The method is not saying to be mean, disrespectful, insensitive, etc. to your step kids.  It’s just the opposite.  It’s to help you learn a different approach or a different concept to disengaging....

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Oh no, I’m one of them!!!!!

Oh no, I’m one of them!!!!!

I just realized something.  It was kind of obvious, now that I think about it, but I still can't believe it! I am constantly reading something about blended families.  I read Facebook group member posts, I read professional articles, books.  One thing I have noticed...

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The NachoKids made me lose my religion!!

The NachoKids made me lose my religion!!

  This is not a bible study blog nor is it a religious blog. It is about an event. We attend a church that is approximately 45 minutes from our house. Not that our destination changes the dynamics of the ride. With five kids in the car, by the time you get to...

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This filthy youngin’ isn’t mine!

This filthy youngin’ isn’t mine!

When my son was little, every other Friday, I would always take him home from daycare, bathe him, dress him in the “daddy outfit” for the weekend and take him to his dad. He would keep him until Sunday. No, I don't dress him in fancy clothes to go to his dad’s and he...

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