In this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David dive into the topic of therapists and their understanding of/lack of understanding of Nacho Parenting. After a member of their Facebook group shares a story about being "fired" by a therapist for following the Nacho Kids method, Lori and David break down the misconceptions therapists may have about stepfamilies and the Nacho approach. They share real-life comments, discuss the importance of finding a therapist who truly understands blended family dynamics, and clarify that nachoing isn’t just about disengagement or ignoring issues—it’s about mental health, self-care, and improving relationships for everyone in the family. If you’ve ever felt misunderstood by a professional or want to know how to vet the right support for your stepfamily, this episode is for you!
In this episode, we discuss:
- Misunderstandings of Nacho Parenting
- Nacho Parenting and Mental Health
- Triggers, Emotions, and Family Dynamics
- The Role of Therapists and Vetting Therapists
- When Therapists Get It Wrong
Nacho Kids Success Story:
"I thought Nachoing meant not caring. Now I see it’s the most loving thing I could’ve done—for all of us." - T.R. Alberta, Canada
Timestamps
00:00 Therapists: Strengths, Weaknesses, Experience
04:01 Therapists' Dilemma with "Nacho" Method
06:31 "Misguided Research Practices"
11:48 Negative Self-Talk Unhealthy Comparison
15:24 Understanding Effective Family Roles
17:22 "Realizing My Impact on Others"
22:07 Vetting Your Therapist
23:47 Therapist Dispute Over Parenting Concerns
26:35 "Find Your Family Support Method"
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