Are you a stepmom or stepdad struggling to navigate big emotions in your blended family?
In Episode 323, Lori welcomes back returning guest, licensed psychologist Michaela Bucchianeri, to explore the essential topic of emotional regulation for stepfamilies. Tune in for expert advice, relatable stories, and actionable strategies tailored for step-parents working to find calm amidst chaos.
What’s Inside This Episode?
- [00:00:30] Emotional Regulation 101: Michaela explains why emotions aren’t the enemy and how learning to work with them is the key to healthier relationships.
- [00:02:13] Crash Course for Stepparents: Why being a stepmom or stepdad is the ultimate training ground for managing emotions.
- [00:10:00] Naming Your Emotions: How increasing your emotional vocabulary can help you understand your feelings and improve communication.
- [00:13:19] Understanding Stress Responses: Dive into “fight, flight, and fawn” stress responses common in blended families and learn healthier alternatives.
- [00:27:00] Regulation Techniques: Real-life tools for managing emotions, from deep breathing to cognitive reframing and selective disengagement.
- [00:33:01] Situation Modification and Selection: Discover how to set boundaries and choose experiences that support your well-being as a step-parent.
- [00:46:51] Impact on Health: Learn why managing stress is crucial for both your physical and mental health—and the well-being of everyone in your stepfamily.
Why Listen?
- Get step-by-step guidance on diffusing conflict and avoiding burnout in your role as a blended family parent.
- Hear relatable scenarios and proven solutions you can start using today.
- Learn the difference between healthy disengagement (Nachoing!) and avoidance, and how it can help you thrive, not just survive, as a stepmom or stepdad.
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I stopped crying in the bathroom after coaching with Lori. I finally feel like “ME” again. Forever Grateful! ~ S.B., Nashville, TN, USA
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