.st0{fill:#FFFFFF;}

NKP357: Estate Planning For Stepfamilies ~ Tamara Arnold, Esq. 

 April 3, 2026

By  Lori Sims

Discover the essential steps for estate planning, trust management, and amicable divorce strategies tailored for blended families on this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast. Hosts Lori and David Sims interview experienced attorney and mediator Tamara Arnold, whose compelling personal story led her to become a passionate advocate for family legacy planning and divorce mediation.

Key Topics Covered

  • Estate Planning for Blended Families: Why you need a trust, the pitfalls of unclear wills, and how to avoid probate 
  • Healthcare Directives & Life Choices: Tamara’s experience navigating her mother’s tragedy and the importance of documenting your wishes 
  • Trust Management Tips: Real-life challenges as a trustee, guidelines for minors, and customizing asset distributions 
  • Blended Family Dynamics: Complicated asset division, step-family conflicts, and setting expectations in estate planning 
  • Divorce Mediation & Custody Conversations: Strategies for amicable divorce, parenting plans, and building healthy co-parenting relationships 
  • Building Trust with Stepchildren: Tamara’s personal journey to earn the trust of her stepdaughter 
  • Self-Care & Co-Parenting Success: How to keep relationships positive for the benefit of the kids 

Listen Now

Hear practical advice and real stories that will help you protect your family, your assets, and your peace of mind. Perfect for anyone navigating stepfamily life, estate planning, or divorce.

Tune in to Episode NKP357 for actionable guidance and heartfelt insights from Tamara Arnold and the Nacho Kids team!

Rate & Review Our Podcast

Please rate and review our podcast on iTunes and Stitcher. This helps others find the podcast and lets us know what our listeners want to hear.

Explore these Resources

In this episode, we mentioned the following resources:

Our Purpose

Nacho Kids' purpose is to dramatically reduce the blended family and stepfamily failure rate by providing the information and tools needed to live a successful and healthy blended life.

Follow or Subscribe To Our Podcast

Join The Conversation

If you’d like to be a guest on the Nacho Kids Podcast, reach out to us and we’ll see what we can do! Or if you have a question you’d like us to answer, send us a message! We are very thankful to all of our guests and our listeners. Our hope for you is that something you hear here will help you in your blend!

Save Your Sanity & Your Blended Relationships.

Join THE NACHO KIDS ACADEMY TODAY!

Success message!
Warning message!
Error message!