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NKP361: Keep The Target Off Your Back 

 May 21, 2026

By  Lori Sims

Welcome back to the Nacho Kids Podcast! In today’s episode, Lori & David Sims kick things off with a playful look at weather metaphors, both literally and within step-family dynamics. The conversation quickly turns to the storms and sunshine that come with step-family life, especially when it comes to anticipating difficult days, dealing with stressful stepchild behaviors, and the endless challenge of managing mealtime battles.

The hosts tackle real-life dilemmas from their Facebook group, including the viral debate: should a stepparent throw away contraband discovered in a stepchild’s room? With humor and candor, Lori & David explore when to step in, when to step back, and how to keep the target off your back as you navigate tricky family situations. They wrap up by sharing heartwarming stories about how being a supportive cheerleader in your stepchild’s life, rather than always focusing on the bad, can make all the difference.

Tune in for practical advice, laughter, and a reminder that sometimes, what feels huge today won’t matter years from now. Join the conversation, and let’s nacho those step-family stressors together!

Key Topics Discussed

  • Managing Expectations in Stepfamilies
  • Reducing Mealtime Stress
  • Handling Stepkid Rule-Breaking (e.g., Vaping)
  • The Power of Perspective
  • Creating Good Memories

Takeaway Message

Keep the focus on reducing stress, supporting healthy relationships, and being mindful of how much energy you invest in everyday problems. Remember: in most cases, small annoyances won’t matter years down the road, and positivity can create lasting, happy memories for everyone involved.

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