In this episode, host Lori sits down with Summer Butler of Blended Co. to discuss her new workbook, "Navigating Life Between Two Homes." Aimed at preteens but helpful for kids as young as seven, this resource was developed from Summer’s real-life coaching experiences with children struggling to manage the emotional and practical challenges of living in blended families.
Summer shares insights into why children need resources that help them process big emotions, navigate loyalty conflicts, communicate across households, and understand new family roles. All without requiring the consent of both parents, which can sometimes be a barrier to getting kids the help they need. The workbook features 12 chapters packed with activities and journaling prompts to encourage emotional expression, self-regulation, and healthy boundaries, either independently or alongside a parent or stepparent.
Lori and Summer delve into the unique pressures that kids face when moving between households, including feelings of guilt, being caught in the middle, adjusting to different rules, and coping with secrets or divided loyalties. Summer offers real-world stories, effective communication tips for kids, boundary-setting techniques, and the importance of validating a child’s feelings without adding parental expectations or shame.
The episode also touches on Summer's upcoming children's book, "Mallie’s Two Homes and a Deer Named Darla," designed for younger kids (toddlers and preschoolers) going between two homes, complete with an adorable stuffed animal to help bridge the emotional gap between both families.
This conversation is packed with empathy and actionable advice for parents, stepparents, and anyone supporting children through the complexities of blended family life. Summer’s practical tools and heartfelt stories highlight the importance of seeing life through children’s eyes and fostering long-term, healthy connections.
Resources Mentioned:
- "Navigating Life Between Two Homes" workbook (for preteens)
- "Mali’s Two Homes and a Deer Named Darla" children’s book and plush toy (for toddlers)
- Downloadable parent prompts and resources at blendedbookco.com
Listen in for real solutions to help blended families thrive—because when kids feel seen, heard, and safe, everyone can grow together.
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