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Stay in your lane!

Stay in your lane!

We often see stepparents (especially stepmoms) feel the need to jump into the blended family playing the role of "mother". Whether it's being the means of transportation for the stepkids, cooking for them, doing their laundry, checking school grades/homework, making...

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Welcome to reality!

Welcome to reality!

Blended family dreams? When you entered into the blend, did you have blended "dreams"? If you did, were they based on "nuclear" family expectations? Even without your having a "blended family fairy tale" dream, there were and are still expectations. I'm sure of it....

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Christmas is over!!!

Christmas is over!!!

Christmas is over and the New Year is approaching. Christmas is a very difficult time for many people, especially for blended families. With blended families, there are so many more people and feelings involved.  Here is a list of 10 things you need to let go of today...

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No, I didn’t marry his kids too!

No, I didn’t marry his kids too!

A lot of times in Facebook groups, you will see someone comment to a stepparent "When you married them, you married their kids too." Um, no I didn't. Do they just not understand the definition of marriage? The definition of marriage is: "the legally or formally...

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10 Benefits of the Stepparent Nachoing (For the Bio Parent)

10 Benefits of the Stepparent Nachoing (For the Bio Parent)

1.    The bio parent will not have to hear the stepparent complaining about their kids. 2.    The bio parent will not have to hear how horrible the stepparent is from their kids. 3.    The bio parent will not feel stuck in the middle and that they have to choose the...

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I do not like my stepkids!

I do not like my stepkids!

Do you dislike your stepkids? Be honest. No judging here. I felt this way. Of course, I was afraid to tell anyone how I felt because of the backlash I knew I would get! They got on my nerves so bad! They would constantly leave messes everywhere. Their dad wouldn't...

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URGENT ANNOUNCEMENT! Nacho Kids Academy is here!!

If you are ready to get serious about changing your blended family mess into success, and to save your sanity and marriage, now is the time to join! In the Academy, we teach you how to properly nacho, we walk alongside your journey with you and we teach you crucial...

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Seeing Things A Little Differently

Recently I read something very interesting that shed some light on what some Nacho Moms (and Biological Moms) struggle with…  wondering why your husband doesn’t see things the way you do when it comes to parenting. The article listed several “types” of Fathers:...

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Stepmom Responsibilities

Stepmom Responsibilities

  Stepmom responsibilities for the stepkids: Make sure they don't die on your watch. Disclaimer: Do not allow them to be on your watch, if you fear you will die on your watch.  

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5 Things I Learned In The Courts

5 Things I Learned In The Courts

The Family Court system is not somewhere you strive to go. Unfortunately a lot of people end up there because of divorce or child custody hearings. Throughout my many years in and out of the court system, I have learned five very important things. It's an extremely...

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Why Do You Nacho?

Why Do You Nacho?

You Nacho to lessen the stress and anxiety, not just in you but those around you. If you are stressed and anxious, others around you will feel that. It's not a pleasant environment. You Nacho to save your sanity. You do this by realizing the things you have absolutely...

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Is NachoKids Disrespectful?

Is NachoKids Disrespectful?

NachoKids is not disrespectful to anyone. It's not ignoring the stepkids or neglecting them. It's not punishing their bio parents. Is it disrespectful to avoid situations that can cause arguments? Is it disrespectful to shut the door to the messy bedroom of stepkid so...

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Do I Nacho everything?

Do I Nacho everything?

When you are disengaging, you don't have to Nacho everything. Just Nacho the things that cause you stress. If you don't mind cooking dinner for the family, then continue to do so. However, if the dishes left over from cooking and eating anger you, then you may want to...

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Three main levels of Nachoing with NachoKids

Three main levels of Nachoing with NachoKids

Level 1 – Basic Nacho: Certain task(s)/duties/responsibilities are Nacho’d.  Not often communicated to the bio parent as being placed into practice.  It’s a bit more subtle. This is also the beginner’s level or the method that just simply works for you and your...

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